Upcoming events.
Thirsty Thursdays | Voluptuous Love: BBW Edition
Get ready for a night that celebrates body positivity, self-love, and the beauty of BBWs in a bold, unapologetic way! Join us at Haze Bar & Lounge for Thirsty Thursdays | Voluptuous Love: BBW Edition, where we honor the stunning, confident, and powerful BBWs who are making waves in the lifestyle community.
This is not just another party—it's a celebration of visibility, empowerment, and inclusivity. Come for the good vibes, great drinks, and an unforgettable party atmosphere that embraces all shapes and sizes.
What to Expect:
A night filled with music, dancing, and live entertainment.
A showcase of BBWs who are breaking barriers and setting new standards within the lifestyle community.
Exclusive drink specials, so you can raise a glass to love, confidence, and the community we’re building together.
A welcoming, inclusive space for everyone to feel seen, appreciated, and celebrated.
Whether you're a BBW, a lover of BBWs, or someone who just wants to vibe with an amazing crowd, this is the spot to be. Let’s turn up and show the world the love and power of voluptuous beauty!
Don't miss out on the fun—this will be a night to remember!
See you there!
Naughty Nerds | Erotic Gamer Lounge
Get ready to level up your night at the Naughty Nerds | Erotic Gamer Lounge—where gaming meets seduction in the most playful, exhilarating way! Hosted by the dynamic duo, NitesXTheRodeo and Papi Equis, this event is a unique fusion of naughty fun and nerdy passion that you won't want to miss.
Step into a world where your favorite video games, immersive experiences, and a touch of erotic energy come together to create a sexy, unforgettable vibe. Whether you're a gamer, a geek, or just someone looking for a good time, this is the perfect spot to unleash your inner nerd while indulging in some spicy, adult fun!
What to Expect:
Live gaming with interactive experiences that get your heart racing.
Themed cocktails to keep you in the mood and your game strong.
Cosplay contests, where you can showcase your nerdy side and win amazing prizes.
Seductive lounge vibes that blur the lines between gaming and pleasure.
Exclusive guest DJs, keeping the energy high and the beats perfect for dancing, gaming, and mingling.
Mandatory Dress Down at 12:00 AM!
When the clock strikes midnight, it’s time to shed the outer layers and let the fun really begin! Get ready for an even more seductive atmosphere as we turn up the heat and get the party into full gear.
Don’t miss out on this electrifying blend of gaming and sensuality. Whether you're here to play or just to vibe, the Naughty Nerds Lounge is the place to be for a night of gaming, flirting, and unforgettable memories!
Game on. Get naughty.
Flex & Flow | A Sensual Flexibility Course
Unwind, stretch, and connect with your sensual energy at Flex & Flow, the ultimate stretch class that blends mindfulness, flexibility, and body empowerment. Hosted by the incredible Papi Equis and the artistic vibe of Xrotica Studio & Gallery, this class is designed to help you release tension, improve flexibility, and awaken your body in the most sensual way possible.
This isn’t just your average stretch class—it’s a journey of self-discovery, where movement meets sensuality and grace. Whether you're a seasoned yogi or just looking to explore something new, Flex & Flow will guide you through a series of stretches and flows designed to enhance your body’s natural rhythm and beauty.
What to Expect:
Gentle yet powerful stretches that increase flexibility, release tension, and promote overall wellness.
A sensual, guided experience that connects your mind, body, and spirit.
Creative movement to help you express your inner sensuality while respecting your body’s limits.
A calm, intimate atmosphere at the stunning Xrotica Studio & Gallery, where art and movement come together in harmony.
Expert guidance from Papi Equis, ensuring a safe and empowering environment for all levels.
This is your space to breathe, flow, and explore the beauty of your body in a supportive and accepting environment. So come as you are, let go of stress, and dive deep into a sensual experience that will leave you feeling rejuvenated, relaxed, and empowered.
Love Letters | Poetry & Pleasure: Open Mic
Get ready for an unforgettable evening of raw emotion, soulful expression, and unapologetic passion at Love Letters | Poetry & Pleasure. Hosted by the one and only Papi Equis, this open mic poetry event invites poets, dreamers, and lovers of all kinds to share their heartbeats through the art of spoken word.
Step into Haze Bar & Lounge, where the ambiance will set the stage for a night filled with love, lust, and everything in between. Whether you’re performing or just vibing to the words of others, this event promises to be a journey of pleasure, connection, and poetic exploration.
Expect live performances, a welcoming atmosphere, and an audience ready to feel every word spoken. This is more than just poetry; it’s about celebrating the power of love in all its forms—expressed through art, words, and the shared energy of the night.
Don’t miss your chance to be part of something truly special. Bring your poems, your stories, your heart—because at Love Letters | Poetry & Pleasure, we’re here to listen.
Sign-up for the mic is open!
Come early, sign up, and take the stage to share your own love letter in verse.
Date & Time: April 17th, 2025
Venue: Haze Bar & Lounge
Admission: Early Bird Tickets: $10 | General Admission: $20 After 11.00 pm
Let’s make this night a love letter to poetry.
Deleted Scenes | Erotic Powershoot
Unleash your sensuality and step into your power with the Erotic Powershoot, a captivating and intimate photography experience sponsored by NitesXTheRodeo & Normvn Photography. This exclusive event is all about celebrating your sexy side—whether you’re looking to capture a sultry moment, embrace your confidence, or explore your erotic energy in front of the lens.
The event will feature a mini photo session where you’ll have the option to choose from three talented photographers, each bringing their unique style to the shoot. You'll also have the opportunity to choose from a selection of outfits provided by our event vendors, or bring your own personal outfit to truly make this shoot your own.
This is your chance to be photographed in a space where sensuality is celebrated, and creativity knows no limits. Our professional photographers will guide you through the process, helping you feel empowered, confident, and ready to own your allure. Whether you're a seasoned model or just looking to try something new, this shoot is designed to bring out your inner goddess.
Limited Spots Available:
Due to the exclusive nature of this event, slots are limited and will be filled on a first come, first serve basis. Make sure to reserve your spot as soon as possible to ensure you don’t miss out on this one-of-a-kind experience.
Date & Time: April 19th, 2025
Location: Xrotica Studios
Cost & Details: General Admission $30
Don’t wait—book your slot now and let your sensuality shine!
4 Play | Sapiosexual Conversation: Sex & Spirituality
Step into a space where sexuality and spirituality intersect at 4 Play: Sapiosexual Conversations. Hosted by the charismatic Papi Equis, this open dialogue invites you to explore the profound connection between sex, intimacy, and spiritual well-being. With expert guests from the realms of sexual health and spiritual teachings, we’ll dive deep into the complex and often untold truths about how our sexual energy and spirituality are intertwined.
In this safe and inclusive space, we’ll tackle questions surrounding sacred sexuality, mindful pleasure, energy flow, and the holistic approach to self-love. Whether you’re looking to expand your understanding, heal, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, this event is a celebration of open-mindedness, empowerment, and vulnerability.
Join us for a night of insightful conversation, personal revelations, and a deeper connection to your body, spirit, and everything in between.
Featuring Expert Guests in Sexual Health and Spiritual Fields
Discover how spirituality can enhance your sexual experiences.
Learn how to integrate healing practices into your intimate life.
Share and hear stories about spiritual awakenings through sexuality.
This is a dialogue you won’t want to miss. Come with an open heart, mind, and body!
Whispers of Desire | A Weekend of Bliss
The Coll3ctive Presents: Whispers of Desires
A Weekend of Bliss
May 2nd – 5th, 2025
Prepare yourself for an unforgettable escape into a weekend of pure indulgence, where passion knows no bounds.
Whispers of Desires is more than just a getaway; it’s an invitation to immerse yourself in an erotic, upscale experience like no other. Hosted by The Collective, Papi Equis and NitesXTheRodeo. This will be a weekend of unbridled seduction, tempting pleasures, and intimate connections.
We’ve secured a stunning mansion in the Charlotte area, an intimate and luxurious haven designed for those who crave indulgence. Over four days, surrender to your deepest desires with erotic fun, exclusive themed parties, adult games, and so much more. This is your chance to live out your fantasies in an atmosphere of elegance, temptation, and thrill.
Weekend Highlights Include:
The Sexxy Masquerade Ball (Saturday): Unveil your secret desires at the pinnacle of the weekend. Hosted by Papi Equis & NitesXTheRodeo, this erotic ball promises to be a night of sensual exploration. Come dressed to seduce, let the masks reveal your hidden persona, and indulge in the atmosphere of pure luxury and passion.
Fully Catered Experience: Every moment will be an indulgence. From tantalizing meals to aphrodisiac-inspired delicacies, every dish and cocktail will elevate your experience. You deserve nothing less.
Exclusive Adult Games & Themed Parties: From playful flirtations to deeper encounters, our adult games and private themed events are designed to arouse and excite, setting the perfect tone for uninhibited fun.
Your all-inclusive package covers your room, board, and access to all events throughout the weekend, ensuring you’re free to focus on the pleasures ahead.
Price: $350 per person (includes accommodation, all events, and catering)
Deposit: $100 per person to secure your spot
Balance Due: February 15th, 2025
Spots are limited and secured on a first-come, first-served basis.
Reserve your place today by sending payments via Cash App to $thecoll3ctive24, or book directly through our website link on the flyer.
For all updates and to stay connected with our community, join the party’s exclusive Telegram chat.
If you don’t have the app yet, download it to stay up to date with the itinerary, event details, and exciting community interactions.
Day passes will also be available for the Saturday event for those unable to secure a full weekend spot. This fee also gets you access to The Masquerade Ball.
Don’t miss your chance to be part of a weekend that will leave your desires awakened and your fantasies fulfilled. Spaces are limited.
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL US:
TheColl3ctive24@gmail.com
Midnight Masquerade Ball
✨ The Midnight Masquerade Ball: A Night of Sensual Seduction ✨
Welcome to The Midnight Masquerade Ball, where sophistication meets unbridled passion. This exclusive, upscale erotic masquerade ball invites you to step into a world where elegance, mystery, and temptation intertwine. It's a night to explore your deepest desires, cloaked in luxurious masks and tantalizing attire.
As the clock strikes midnight, prepare for an evening filled with intoxicating pleasure, where every whisper, every touch, and every glance heightens the anticipation of what’s to come. The mask you wear will conceal your identity, but will reveal your most seductive self.
Event Highlights:
Glamorous Attire & Forbidden Masks: Dress in your most seductive, captivating attire—tailored to perfection. Your mask will be your secret, a symbol of the desires you're ready to explore.
FORMAL ATTIRE IS STRICTLY ENFORCED, ensuring that every guest radiates opulence and elegance as they enter this world of seduction.
Provocative Entertainment: Surrender to the allure of sultry burlesque, intimate dances, and erotic performances that will tantalize your senses and leave you yearning for more.
Indulgent Dining & Enticing Cocktails: Savor decadent, aphrodisiac-infused delicacies paired with meticulously crafted cocktails. Every bite and sip will heighten the tension in the air, keeping your pulse racing.
Exclusive VIP Sanctuaries: For those seeking a more intimate experience, escape into private, velvet-lined rooms where fantasies unfold in secrecy. These intimate spaces are for those who wish to explore the depths of their desire without inhibition.
Seductive Ambience: Velvet drapes, dim lighting, and whispered promises will fill the venue, creating an atmosphere of deep longing and irresistible allure. Every detail is designed to make you feel both powerful and desired.
The Enchanted Masquerade is for those bold enough to embrace their deepest fantasies, those unafraid to step into a night of passion, elegance, and indulgence. Whether you come as a couple or seek an anonymous encounter, the night promises to unlock pleasures that will linger long after the final dance.
Let your mask reveal what words cannot. Indulge in a night where passion reigns supreme, and all taboos fade away.
✨ Dress Code: Strictly formal, seductive elegance, couture, and a mask to hide your secrets. ✨ Age Limit: 21+ only.
Will you dare to unmask your desires? The night of your fantasies awaits...
Messy Bliss | The Art of Sploshing
Get ready to dive into a night of messy pleasure, excitement, and pure indulgence at Messy Bliss: An Erotic Sploshing Experience! Hosted by the dynamic duo Papi Equis and Mr. Erotic, this event is designed to push boundaries and take your senses on an unforgettable journey of sensual chaos.
Step into a world where the art of sploshing—playful, messy, and tantalizing—meets the electric atmosphere of erotic exploration. Expect a night filled with sensual performances, immersive sploshing showcases, and the freedom to let go and get messy in all the right ways. Whether you’re a sploshing enthusiast or simply curious, this event offers a safe, fun, and vibrant space for everyone to embrace their wild side.
With Papi Equis and Mr. Erotic at the helm, you know the energy will be high, the vibes will be sizzling, and the moments unforgettable. Prepare for an evening where your messiest desires come to life, creating a night of bliss, connection, and uninhibited fun.
Come dressed to get dirty, because this isn’t just any event—this is a night to indulge in Messy Bliss.
Thirsty Thursdays | Pisces Aries BASH
Step into a night of passion, allure, and unforgettable experiences at the Thirsty Thursdays: Erotic Social at Haze Bar & Lounge. This electrifying evening is the perfect blend of social energy, sensual vibes, and live demonstrations—crafted for those seeking something unique and tantalizing.
Hosted by the charismatic Papi Equis, this event is not just a party—it's a celebration of eroticism, creativity, and connection. Prepare to indulge in a sensory feast, as the evening unfolds with exclusive showcases and performances designed to excite, inspire, and entertain.
This Thirsty Thursday, we’re kicking off the weekend early with an unforgettable celebration at the Pisces Aries Bash, honoring none other than Q YSL, the visionary owner of YSL Lifestyle Group. Join us for a night of luxury, music, and excitement as we come together to celebrate Q’s incredible achievements and the YSL Lifestyle brand!
As we vibe to the beats, we’ll be toasting to Q’s leadership and success in curating a lifestyle that inspires and uplifts. With a unique blend of Pisces sensitivity and Aries fire, this night will be an energetic celebration of creativity, success, and the bold spirit of adventure that defines both the zodiac and YSL Lifestyle.
VIP Sections Available Upon Request:
Elevate your experience with a private section for you and your crew! Perfect for celebrating in style, our VIP sections come with bottle service and the best views in the house. Contact us today to reserve your spot and ensure your group gets the VIP treatment they deserve.
Let’s come together to celebrate success, creativity, and the vibe that makes YSL Lifestyle Group legendary!
RSVP Now and let’s toast to the Pisces and Aries energies, to Q YSL, and to a night full of unforgettable memories.
4 Play: Sapiosexual Conversations/Shibari & Love
Join us for a thought-provoking evening of open dialogue, exploration, and connection at "4 Play | Sapiosexual Conversations / Shibari & Love" Hosted by the insightful Papi Equis and sponsored by Xrotica Creative Arts Studio & Gallery, this event is an opportunity to delve deep into the complexities of relationships within the social and lifestyle communities.
The first half of the evening will be a candid, open discussion about the many dynamics of relationships in these unique spaces. Whether you're navigating polyamory, open relationships, or exploring new aspects of connection, this session will provide a safe and welcoming environment for individuals to share their thoughts, experiences, and questions. Our goal is to foster understanding, communication, and a deeper appreciation of diverse relationship styles.
Following this engaging conversation, we’ll transition into the second half of the evening with an open bedroom bondage class focused on the intricate art of Shibari—the Japanese practice of rope bondage. Led by skilled practitioners, this session will cover the basics of Shibari, including safety, trust-building, and the beauty of tying as a form of connection and intimacy. Whether you're new to the art or looking to refine your skills, this class will offer practical guidance and expert tips for creating a safe, sensual experience.
Whether you’re seeking knowledge, community, or just a space to explore, "4 Play" is your chance to engage, learn, and connect with others in the lifestyle. Don't miss this evening of open-minded conversation and sensual discovery.
Thirsty Thursdays | Love Letters: Poetry in Motion
Dive into an evening of passion, raw emotion, and the beauty of love with Thirsty Thursdays | Love Letter: Poetry In Motion at Haze Bar & Lounge. This intimate poetry event invites you to explore the sensual side of the written word, featuring love and erotic poetry that will ignite your imagination and stir your soul. Whether you're a seasoned poet or a first-time performer, come share your verses or simply soak in the electric atmosphere of expression and desire.
Enjoy a curated selection of poetry that celebrates the power of love in all its forms, from sweet affection to fiery desire. As the night unfolds, sip on crafted cocktails and let the words flow alongside the music.
Open Mic: Whether you're here to perform or listen, our open mic session is for anyone who wants to share their poetry—no filters, just pure emotion.
Specials:
• Signature cocktails for the night, inspired by the themes of love and passion.
• Exclusive drink deals throughout the evening.
Join us for an unforgettable night where poetry is in motion, hearts are open, and love is celebrated in every line. Bring your thirst for art, passion, and connection. See you at Haze!
Dress Code: Love, passion, and self-expression encouraged.
Sweet Tooth | Splooshing Edition
Get ready for a night of indulgence, passion, and exploration at the highly anticipated Sweet Tooth | Splooshing Event.
Hosted by NitesXTheRodeo and ErroticEventz!
Join us on February 22nd for an unforgettable evening where sensuality takes center stage.
The event will feature thrilling erotic acts, tantalizing performances, and mesmerizing shibari demos—a captivating art of Japanese rope bondage that will both tease and titillate. Whether you're a seasoned enthusiast or a curious newcomer, this is the perfect opportunity to immerse yourself in an atmosphere of exploration, creativity, and connection.
Expect to witness:
Erotic performances that push boundaries and spark your deepest desires
Shibari demonstrations, showcasing the beauty and intimacy of the rope art
A safe and welcoming space where all bodies, desires, and identities are embraced
Let your fantasies run wild as we transform the venue into an intimate playground of pleasure and art. This is your chance to experience something daring, educational, and unforgettable!
Date: February 22nd
Time: 9:00 PM onwards
Location: Released with ticket purchase
Tickets are limited, so be sure to grab yours before they're gone. Dress code: Sensual, seductive, or come as you are—whatever makes you feel empowered.
We can’t wait to see you there for a night of passion, creativity, and indulgence. Don’t miss out on this electrifying experience!
4 Play | Sapiosexual Conversations & Shibari with Love
Join us for a unique experience where we begin with an open, supportive dialogue about the intersection of sex, intimacy, and mental health, and then transition into a hands-on Shibari workshop. This event is designed to foster a deeper understanding of both the emotional and physical aspects of connection.
We’ll start with an engaging conversation about how intimacy and rope play can impact mental health. Topics such as body autonomy, emotional safety, trauma recovery, and the importance of communication in intimate settings will be explored in a non-judgmental and welcoming environment. This part of the class aims to build a foundation of trust, mindfulness, and emotional awareness that will inform your practice later on, and we have the lovely and studied Dr. Ginger as our keynote guest for the evening.
The second portion of the event will focus on Shibari itself. Here, we’ll move into the practical side of rope bondage, where you’ll learn foundational knots, techniques, and safety protocols. With a focus on consent and communication, we’ll guide you through hands-on exercises, allowing you to deepen your understanding of the art while cultivating a strong sense of connection with yourself and others.
What to Expect:
Group discussion on mental health, intimacy, and sex
Focus on how Shibari can be used as a tool for emotional connection, self-exploration, and healing
A beginner-friendly introduction to Shibari techniques
Hands-on practice with individual attention
A supportive, open environment for sharing and learning
Who Should Attend: This class is open to all individuals interested in learning more about the emotional and physical aspects of Shibari, as well as those curious about how intimacy and mental health are interwoven. No prior experience is necessary.
What to Bring:
Comfortable clothing that allows for movement
An open mind and a willingness to engage in meaningful conversation and practice
Join us for an evening that blends the beauty of rope artistry with a deeper understanding of mental and emotional well-being.
Trench Coats & Lingerie | Valentines Day Edition
This Valentine’s Day Weekend, prepare to indulge in an evening where passion meets fashion. Seduction in Style is an exclusive, sensual soirée that combines the elegance of trench coats with the allure of lingerie for a night of seductive fun and playful indulgence.
Slip into your most sultry lingerie and drape yourself in a sleek trench coat, as you enter a world of temptation. Whether you're dressing for romance, intrigue, or simply to captivate, this event is designed to make your fantasies come alive.
Expect:
A Sensual Atmosphere: Dim lights, seductive music, and intimate corners for private moments of connection.
Themed Cocktail Menu: Enjoy an array of cocktails crafted to excite the senses.
Fashion Contest: Strut your stuff in the ultimate trench coat and lingerie ensemble, with a chance to win exclusive prizes.
Live Entertainment: Tempting burlesque performers, sensual dance routines, and seductive surprises throughout the night.
Exclusive VIP Area: For those who prefer a more intimate experience, a VIP section with luxurious seating, private bars, and additional surprises awaits.
Exclusive Play Area: For those who want a open and free sexual experience, play areas with enough toys, erotic artist, and additional surprises awaits.
Come ready to explore your sensual side and share unforgettable moments with fellow seductive souls. This is your chance to flirt, play, and indulge in the perfect Valentine’s celebration.
Dress Code: Trench Coats & Lingerie – the more daring, the better! Be creative and bold, and prepare for an unforgettable evening.
This event is 21+ only.
Thirsty Thursdays | Lovers & Friends
Welcome to Thirsty Thursdays, the ultimate erotic mixer at Haze Bar & Lounge, where indulgence, intrigue, and attraction come to life. We invite you to join a crowd of confident, adventurous souls ready to explore their desires in a fun, safe, and enticing atmosphere.
Set in the intimate and chic ambiance of Haze Bar & Lounge, enjoy signature cocktails, sultry beats, and the chance to mingle with like-minded individuals. This event is all about celebrating freedom, flirtation, and sensuality—without judgment. Whether you're looking to make connections, share a seductive conversation, or let loose on the dance floor, Thirsty Thursdays offers a space where pleasure is the only rule.
Expect:
Sexy Drink Specials: Sip on provocative cocktails and thirst-quenching shots, specially crafted to get the night going.
Erotic Atmosphere: Soft lighting, sultry sounds, and a seductive vibe set the tone for an unforgettable night.
Exclusive Socials: Meet flirtatious strangers or flirt with familiar faces in an exclusive social mixer.
Playful Ice Breakers: Enjoy cheeky games and tantalizing challenges designed to loosen up your inhibitions and spark chemistry.
Whether you're here to explore or to simply enjoy the vibe, Thirsty Thursdays is the place to be. Come thirsty for more... connection, fun, and whatever else your heart desires.
When: Every Thursday, 9:00 PM - 2.00 AM
Where: Haze Bar & Lounge, 2408 Central Ave. Suite C, Charlotte, NC
Dress code: Alluring and confident. Wear what makes you feel empowered and sexy!
Remember: This is a safe, consensual, and respectful event for adults who wish to embrace their sensual side.
Ladies Night: Guilty Pleasures
Get ready for an unforgettable night of empowerment, exploration, and fun at our exclusive Ladies' Night Event!
Join us for an evening filled with tantalizing activities, interactive demonstrations, and socializing with like-minded women who share an interest in exploring their desires. Our expert hosts will guide you through various kink scenarios, from BDSM basics to more advanced play, ensuring you're comfortable, confident, and excited to discover new pleasures.
Highlights of the Event:
Live Demonstrations: Learn the art of bondage, impact play, and more with our experienced kink professionals.
Sensual Workshops: Explore new techniques and discover your hidden desires in intimate, informative sessions.
Cocktail Hour: Sip on themed drinks while you mingle, share experiences, and make new connections.
Safe and Inclusive Atmosphere: We pride ourselves on creating a non-judgmental environment where everyone can be their true selves.
Consent is Key: Our priority is respect and communication, ensuring everyone feels comfortable and empowered throughout the event.
Dress Code: Express your inner goddess! Whether you prefer sultry lingerie, sexy but chic attire, or something more daring, wear what makes you feel fabulous.
Come indulge in a night of sensual exploration, camaraderie, and empowerment. Ladies' Night is about breaking barriers, embracing your unique desires, and having a blast with amazing women in a judgment-free zone.
RSVP Today and Unleash Your Inner Wild!
Estatic Expressions
Dive into a world of sensual exploration and creative expression at Ecstatic Expression. This one-of-a-kind lifestyle event brings together electrifying BDSM demonstrations, mesmerizing Shibari Artistry, and the raw beauty of erotic poetry.
A collaborative celebration of connection, creativity, and community; Ecstatic Expressions invites you to embrace your passions and explore the depths of intimate artistry in a welcoming, inclusive space.
4 Play : Lessons in Intimacy, Love, & Shibari
Embark on a transformative journey of intimacy and connection through the ancient art of Shibari, a practice that blends trust, communication, and sensuality. In this intimate class, you will learn how Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) can be used as a powerful tool to deepen your emotional and physical connection with your partner. Through guided exercises and expert instruction, you will discover how rope can facilitate a unique form of vulnerability, trust, and heightened sensuality that enhances intimacy in your relationship.
Whether you are looking to explore new dimensions of closeness, enhance physical touch, or cultivate trust and communication, this workshop provides a safe and supportive space to experience Shibari in a way that fosters emotional and erotic connection. You will gain a deeper understanding of how this beautiful practice can strengthen your bond, while also learning essential techniques for safe, consensual rope play.
What to Expect:
Introduction to Shibari and its role in fostering intimacy and trust
Step-by-step guidance on basic knots and ties, focused on enhancing emotional and physical connection
Exercises that use Shibari to encourage communication, vulnerability, and mutual respect
Exploration of how rope can deepen sensual pleasure and intimacy between partners
Tips on using Shibari to create a more fulfilling and emotionally rich relationship
This class is open to individuals and couples of all experience levels, whether you're new to Shibari or looking to expand your knowledge of this intimate art form. No prior experience with rope bondage is necessary. Whether you're seeking to explore intimacy in a relationship or connect more deeply with yourself, this class is designed for those who are curious, open-minded, and eager to enhance their emotional and sensual connections.
What to Bring:
Comfortable clothing that allows for movement
A partner (optional), or you may be paired with someone in the class for practice
An open heart and willingness to explore new forms of connection and intimacy
Note: Consent, safety, and respect are the foundation of this workshop. All activities are designed with care to ensure a supportive, non-judgmental environment where participants can explore Shibari and intimacy at their own pace.
Players Ball: A Night of Silk & Kink | XXXLCUSIVE AfterParty
Step into a world of indulgence and freedom at our XXXclusive Players Ball After Party.
Inspired by the glamorous, high-energy atmosphere of a Players Ball, this event is a celebration of empowerment, decadence, and the full expression of your most intimate desires. Think opulent attire, glittering fashion, and a bold fusion of kink and luxury.
Dress to impress in your most extravagant outfits—whether it's couture, fetishwear, or something daring that celebrates your alter ego. Come prepared to mingle, connect, and create unforgettable moments with fellow players. Let go of societal norms and embrace the freedom to explore the many facets of your identity in a safe, non-judgmental environment.
The after party awaits: full of mystery, allure, and the thrill of the unknown. Where desire reigns, and pleasure knows no bounds.
Players Ball: A Night of Silk & Kink
Step into a world of sensuality, mystery, and indulgence at The Erotic Players Ball, an exclusive, electrifying night designed for the bold and adventurous.
Live from Haze Bar & Lounge, this event invites you to explore your deepest desires and connect with like-minded individuals in a safe, sophisticated, and tantalizing environment.
Come dressed in your most player & seductive attire, whether it’s elegant lingerie, daring costumes, or whatever makes you feel empowered and confident. Enjoy an evening filled with enticing music, decadent performances, and interactive experiences that will leave you wanting more.
The Erotic Players Ball is more than just a party—it’s an invitation to break free from societal norms, explore new boundaries, and embrace your sensual side. Engage with guests on a deeper level in themed areas, indulge in exclusive cocktails, and take part in thrilling games and contests.
Highlights of the evening include:
Live Performances: Burlesque, sensual dance shows, and provocative acts.
AfterParty: Explore curated spaces dedicated to different fantasies and experiences.
Exclusive VIP Packages: For those seeking a more intimate setting.
Whether you're a first-timer or a seasoned player, NitesXTheRodeo guarantees a night of unforgettable memories, liberating energy, and a celebration of all things sensual.
Important Notes: This is a private, adult-only event. Attendees must be 21 or older to participate. Consent, respect, and discretion are key to ensuring an enjoyable and safe experience for everyone.
Get ready to step into a night where pleasure and passion are the ultimate playmakers.
Boundless Beginnings | A Black & White Affair
Welcome to The Boundless Beginnings New Year’s Eve Event!
Join us @ a private location in Charlotte/Concord area for a night of celebration and new beginnings. Get ready to dance, laugh, and make memories as we ring in the new year together. This in-person event promises to be a night to remember, filled with music, food, and good vibes. Don't miss out on this opportunity to kick off the new year in style with friends and loved ones. Mark your calendars and get ready for an unforgettable night!
Live Music by DJ Picasso: Dance into the new year with a captivating mix of Afrobeat, R&B, and party anthems.
Curated Atmosphere: A chic setting with full bar and hookah, perfect for enjoying the night in style.
Exclusive Amenities: VIP lounge access, hot tub, private parking, and access to Rdu LETTUCE PRAY for unique NYE refreshments.
Captivating Experiences: Explore interactive art and kink demos by NitesXTheRodeo, including an Erotic Art showcase, Impact Play demo, and Shibari demonstration.
Erotic Game Night | Pajama Edition
Back by popular demand with another game night for all the kinky ones looking to celebrate love with a twist.
Come out and enjoy a fun night of Afro-Eroticism, Adult Games, and Fun you definitely won't forget. Papi Equis & The YSL Group have a game night planned for all the adults needing a night out. Keeping is sexy, seductive, and playful we invite you to the Pajama Jammy Jam edition.
Food, BYOB, Adult Games, & BDSM Fun.
Presale tickets are LIMITED, Once sold out only general admission will only be available for purchase.
VENDORS WILL BE ON HAND.
QUESTIONS & CONCERNS
E-Mail : AdminX@NXTRodeo.com
Thirsty Thursdays : Leather & Lace Edition
Come mix & mingle with some of the sexiest kinksters in Charlotte. Brought to you by Papi Equis of NitesXTheRodeo, along with the Y$L Group.
Middle Georgia : Lifestyle Retreat
Escape into nature and elevate your lifestyle at Kelly’s Dreamland Retreat. Join us for an unforgettable 3-day adventure filled with exploration, lifestyle education, and personal relaxation. Ready to dream out loud? Treat yourself to the ultimate getaway!
Location: Middle Georgia (just 1.5 hours from ATL), on a serene lakefront property. Dates: November 8th, 9th, and 10th. We’re getting back to nature with outdoor activities like water sports, fishing, and fireside fun, plus an action-packed agenda! Enjoy BDSM Workshops led by Sir Leezus and our Resident Dom, Papi Equis.
You’ll dive deep with 6 immersive classes from LS coaches that will keep the heat turned up! Plus, we’ve got a 3-Day Meal Plan, Fetish Freedom Kit, and so much more to ensure this retreat is unforgettable.
House of WHorrors
HALLOWEEN HAS ARRIVED & The Y$L Group & NitesXTheRodeo have come together to bring you a Haunted Playhouse and Double Header Halloween party you don't want to miss.
This costume party is for all the adults looking to having some fun with a TWIST to the night. Calling all my lifestyle goers and liberated minds, put on that costume you’ve been waiting to put on and come enjoy what goes BUMP in the night.
Come ready for a FUN night of erotic games, liberated energy, Halloween fun, & BDSM demos.
EARLY REGISTRATION
SINGLE WOMEN: $35 | COUPLES: $80 | SINGLE MEN: $80
LATE REGISTRATION
SINGLE WOMEN: $45 | COUPLES: $100 | SINGLE MEN: $100
DOORS OPEN AT 8.00 PM | DRESS DOWN AT 12.00 AM
AFTERPARTY 10.00 PM - 3.00 AM
FREE PARKING | FOOD | DRINKS | 420 | RSVP REQUIRED
COSTUME IS REQUIRED FOR ENTRY
PRIVATE SESSIONS WITH PAPI EQUIS ARE AVAILABLE UPON DONATION.
FOR MOR INFORMATION: 980.327.6375 FOR TICKETS CASHAPP: $MALIQ34
SCREAM | The Haunted Dunegon
THIRSTY THURSDAYS AT HAZE JUST GOT SPOOKY!
TRICK OR TREAT . HALLOWEEN HAS ARRIVED & Papi Equis has teamed up with the Y$L Group to bring you a haunted dungeon and Halloween party you don't want to miss.
This costume party is for all the adults looking to having some fun with a TWIST to the night. Calling all my lifestyle goers and liberated minds, put on that costume you’ve been waiting to put on and come enjoy what goes BUMP in the night.
Come ready for a FUN night of erotic games, liberated energy, Halloween fun, & BDSM demos.
COSTUME IS REQUIRED FOR ENTRY
PERSONAL DEMOS ARE AVAILABLE UPON DONATIONS.
SECTIONS ARE AVAILABLE : EMAIL ADMINX@NXTRODEO.COM FOR INQUIRY.
Wild Desires : Presented By Kelly's DreamLand
PROMO CODE “PAPI24”
FOR DISCOUNT TICKETS
Lifestyle Show Date: October 26th, 2024
Costumes. This is a Halloween event with a 19th Century Era theme. Think "The Bridgertons." Check out our affordable Costume Inspiration List for ideas. Get creative, to enter you MUST be dressed the part! ALTERNATIVE ATTIRE: BLACK TIE FORMAL (no jeans, t-shirts, sneakers, boots, or hats)
Vetting Schedule (all sales end October 19th) Get Vetted Here
Early Vetting
Dates: August 3rd - September 1st
Discount: 10% OFF
Promo Code: EARLYVET
General Vetting
Dates: September 2nd - 21st
Discount: 5% OFF
Promo Code: GENERALVET
Late Vetting
Dates September 22nd - October 19th
Post Purchase Membership. After purchasing you will recieve an email entitled "Order Confirmation: Steps #1-3." Mandatory completion is required within 48 hours of purchase and 1 week prior to the show date.
BDSM Sessions. A 15-minute introductory BDSM session is available. You will be contacted if you add this session to your access or if it is already included. During the call, we will clarify your kink focus and pair you with a Service Top, followed by a consultation with the Service Top scheduled before the show day.
***SIR LEEZUS IS NOT PROVIDING SESSIONS THIS SHOW***
Mr. Lover - Impact Play
Madam G - Impact Play, Wax Play
Papi Equis - Shibari
Sir Baker - Fire Play, Breathe Play
Massages. This service consists of 15-minute neck and back massage with Madame Kelly’s masseur Antoine.
Thirsty Thursdays : Lifestyle Social Mixer
Come mix & mingle with some of the sexiest kinksters in Charlotte. Brought to you by Papi Equis of NitesXTheRodeo, along with the Y$L Group.
Oil Up | Erotic Wrestling
If you've attended a few Rodeos in the past, then we're officially bringing this back full force. If you know, you know!
And if you don't, well well.....
We are about to show UP, show OUT, and be OILED UP!
We got the baby oils, we got the body oils, we got the fine a** Rodeo Mamis and they're ready to be oiled up to compete for the First Annual NitesXTheRodeo Erotic Wrestling Championship belt!
All we need from you is your attendance, your cheers, and of course bring the $1s!! Tipping is HIGHLY recommended and appreciated during this event.
Thirsty Thursdays : Lifestyle Social Mixer
Come mix & mingle with some of the sexiest kinksters in Charlotte. Brought to you by Papi Equis of NitesXTheRodeo, along with the Y$L Group.
Thirsty Thursdays : Lifestyle Social Mixer
Come mix & mingle with some of the sexiest kinksters in Charlotte. Brought to you by Papi Equis of NitesXTheRodeo, along with the Y$L Group.
MiXX : Lifestyle Social Mixer
Come mix & mingle with some of the sexiest kinksters in Charlotte. Brought to you by Papi Equis of NitesXTheRodeo, along with the Y$L Group.
MiXX | Charlotte Lifestyle Meet & Greet
Spicing up the Charlotte nightlife with a mix and mingle event for all those within the lifestyle community. Come out network, mingle, and enjoy the many levels of AfroEroticism within the world of kink. Hosted by Papi Equis and the amazing creatives of NitesXTheRodeo. There will be live poetry, drink specials, & special demos.
Doors open at 7.00 PM
TICKECT PRICES ARE RAISED AT THE DOOR.
Madame’s Lifestyle Retreat | Miami Takeover
Join us for an unforgettable journey into the realm of BDSM at Madame's Lifestyle Retreat! Immerse yourself in a weekend of exploration, education, and connection in five captivating cities across the beautiful Miami, Florida.
Dates: July 26th - 28th, 2024
Inclusions:Travel from Atlanta to MiamiInter-city transportation within Miami
Choice of one Double Queen or one King roomRetreat
Meet/Greet and Indoctrination Debauchery & Sensory Play
BDSM Workshop led by Daddy Heff
Shibari BDSM Workshop led by Papi EquisPersonal
Kink Bookbag (valued at $150+)Retreat Bag
Retreat Activity Schedule Aftercare Time Blocks
This retreat is sponsored by: Indulgere Condoms Bomade Vodka Chefiana Aisle 3 Films Special
Notes: All sales are final, with no refunds. Includes access to retreat activities In Miami.
MiXX | Charlotte Lifestyle Meet & Greet
Spicing up the Charlotte nightlife with a mix and mingle event for all those within the lifestyle community. Come out network, mingle, and enjoy the many levels of AfroEroticism within the world or kink. Hosted by Papi Equis and the amazing creatives of NitesXTheRodeo. There will be live poetry, drink speacials, & special demos.
Doors open at 6.00 PM
TICKECT PRICES ARE RAISED AT THE DOOR.
MiXX | Charlotte Lifestyle Meet & Greet
Spicing up the Charlotte nightlife with a mix and mingle event for all those within the lifestyle community. Come out network, mingle, and enjoy the many levels of AfroEroticism within the world or kink. Hosted by Papi Equis and the amazing creatives of NitesXTheRodeo. There will be live poetry, drink speacials, & special demos.
Doors open at 6.00 PM
TICKECT PRICES ARE RAISED AT THE DOOR.
DreamNite | Game Night ATL Edition
So we heard Atlanta has been patiently waiting for the next Kellys Dreamland, and what better way then to collaborate with Papi and the Rodeo team for a adult game night to remember. Bringing you the ultimate LS game night right in the heart of downtown Atlanta.
Hosted by Papi Equis prepare yourself for a full night of erotic games, BDSM demos, and kink vibes for all to explore.
Tickets are ON SALE NOW!!!!!!!
Open bar for the 1st 15 ticket holders, FOOD, HOOKAH, OPEN PLAY, & EROTIC GAMES
THERE WILL BE NO TICKETS SOLD AT THE DOOR!!!!!